when i remember them movies like 'my sassy girl', 'before sunrise', 'pretending lovers', etc. Asian films. I tend to think that some girls are jerk assholes too. Especially with inexperienced guys. Poor men, being played upon. Grrr! Thats why my greatest weapons - Charm and charisma. Having nice cars, clothes, job, and an indifferent attitude. Then having d best looking gurl buddies around you. It intimidates potential jerk gurls