vielrose, don't take this personally. This is just a piece of advice. TWO-TIMERS whether they are honest lovers or not, DO NOT have a place in anyone's heart. This is not love, but LUST, per se. What you do to your neighbor comes around, and it comes around ten-fold like a big smack on the fucking face. I do not condone or no one condones cheating your lover / partner. You can't have both worlds at the same time. That's tantamount to being selfish to lust. There's a Pinoy song that goes, Sana Dalawa Ang Puso Ko, and this only mirrors our own self that we need more than one thing. We are not satisfied with just one thing so we do things that we will only regret in the end. Everyone has the capacity to love and be loved so use that capacity wisely. If you don't want some peace of mind then go ahead with those two hapless & clueless girls with your gallivanting life, but if you want peace in your heart, let go of the two and start anew. I tell you, if you choose either of the two girls, you're gonna wreck somebody's life or even your own life. Like I said, everyone and even you have the capacity to love and be loved if you only use it with care & understanding as if it was something breakable or fragile. Yes, LOVE IS FRAGILE, do not hold it too strongly or too loosely because it may fall or break. In lust, we use our carnal desires, but in love, we should use it with our mind & heart. But here in the end, it will only be you and you alone to decide if you really want that peace in your mind. . . and peace in your heart. Goodluck, vielrose