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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #25 on: June 27, 2009, 06:19:43 am »
Thanks for sharing, nice information..Its really a good read. ;D  finger4u
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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #26 on: June 27, 2009, 05:46:30 pm »
heheh... NIIICE...  :D

terms used:
nice/"not nice" (jerk?). check.
ugly/handsome. check.
money/poor.
homosexual/heterosexual.
single/attached. check, check, check.

missing:
funny/dull.
intelligent/monkey.
... o kasama na rin yan sa "nice"?  :P

+Good for you Jabar! Pero dapat may money rin nga pala diba?
 ;D ...penge?

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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #27 on: June 27, 2009, 06:00:54 pm »
Onga pala, "the perfect guy" is meant for "the perfect girl". Otherwise, hindi kayo magki-click. Hindi rin tuloy "perfect".

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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #28 on: April 17, 2011, 06:26:43 am »
Hey sis muay ,just now happened to stumble upon great post of yours  ;)  finger4u

Up natin :P  toast::
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FTT :

I personally go with a man who has 80% of everything ,since NOTHING is a 100%  ;)

the remaining 20% lack of him,i guess i can compromise and can live with.


As Steve Harvey jokingly says "that the only way a woman can be completely SATISFIED is to get

herself four different man~ an OLD one, an UGLY one,a MANDINGO,and a GAY guy.
Now the 4 of

them combined?They got you covered. ::)

The OLD man~he'll sit around the house with you,spend his pension check on you,hug you,
hold you give you comfort and won't expect any sex from you because,well,he CAN'T Get It UP no way. ;D
From him,you get financial security.

The UGLY one?~He'll go above and beyond the call of duty to help you out:he'll take the kids
to schools and take their lessons after school, run you down to the grocery store,wash the cars on
weekends,baby sit the cat/dog-whatever you need,He'll provide it because he's just happy someone as
beautiful as you is paying him any kind of attention.From Him you get "ME TIME".He frees you up to do all
the things you need time to do.

Then there's MANDINGO man~You know what you gonna get from him.He's BIG,He's NOT that
SMART [amf] CAN'T hold a good conversation,GOT MUSCLES POPPING OUT FROM HIS EYEBROWS TO HIS
PINKIE TOE and when you see him,you know he's going to put your back out[a massage]
That's all you want from him and he makes sure He gives it to you real good.
A Mind-Blowing sex ~that's what you can get from Mandigo  8)  :P

Then the GAY guy~Someone you can go Shopping with,who doesn't want anything from you but GOSSIP ;D
and details about what the OLD man bought you ;D which errands you sent the UGLY guy to take care of,
and exactly how Mandigo had you doing monkey flips for a week.See,the Gay guy gives you ALL the
conversation you need [oh di ba?] ;D

...it takes 4 guys,supplying a woman's needs? women are that complicated  :D

and a woman's happiness isn't guaranteed,even once their need have been met. smoking::

Compare to Men,they are  simple creatures.It really doesn't take much to make them HAPPY...

Support , Love and the COOKIE 3 things and that's it.hmmmmm



@Ladies,

I still believe Men respect STANDARDS, We  need to have some~it's up to us (women) to set our own bar.

Know what you want and make that your standard. Your standard list have to be fluid and flexible

You may keep adding and subtracting but your standard will help you clarify your thinking and

you'll be more aware and open to a lot of choices.

Be willing to pass someone who doesn't CLEARLY doesn't meet your Top essential standard,

EVEN THOUGH YOU MAY BE ATTRACTED TO HIM.

If you do NOT Find your ideal mate for quite a long while,you know what it means only one

thing : YOU MUST PERSEVERE!  ;)

But never never settle for less,know what God's  Best for you  ::flowers


You have heard the wail of unconscious lovers:

I'm looking for LOVE in all the wrong places,looking for LOVE in all the Wrong Faces.
That's NOT the real problem.Most have been looking for LOVE in ALL THE WRONG WAYS.



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Don't buy into the Myth on Scarcity of Men impact they are Humongous Single Men

especially in Alaska  :P ;D


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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #29 on: April 17, 2011, 06:54:01 am »
Reason why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams...

its because i'm married  toast:: kung single ako baka makita nila hinahanap nila  ;D

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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #30 on: April 17, 2011, 06:54:57 am »
1. The nice women are ugly.

2. The pretty women are not nice.

3. The pretty and nice women are married.

4. The women who are not so pretty, but are nice women, have no money.

5. The women who are not so pretty, but are nice women with money think we are only after their money.

6. The pretty men without money are after our money.

7. The pretty men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual, don't think we are handsome and rich enough.

8. The women who think we are handsome, that are heterosexual, somewhat nice and have money, are old women on their 50s.

9. The women who are somewhat pretty, somewhat nice and have some money and thank God are heterosexual, are shy and NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE ends up single for life.


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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #31 on: May 23, 2011, 06:49:44 am »
Because women are not looking they are just waiting for the right man to come to their lives.   Because they believe in a notion that someday their prince charming will come.  But some didn't

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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #32 on: July 14, 2011, 04:53:17 am »
girl ikaw na rin gumawa ng first move para di ka mawalan.

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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #33 on: July 14, 2011, 12:50:21 pm »
nyahaha...
di naman cowardice ung tipong maganda si babae and me pera and u feel attracted to her and u know di mo sya kayang "abutin" so dedma kna lg...panget kasi na "mas nkakaangat si babae kesa sa lalake".bawas yan sa pride ng
mga lalake... ;)


nah cant really call those guys coward... its more on male ego thing for them ^_^

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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #34 on: July 15, 2011, 08:50:29 pm »
It came to my interest... hahahaha.. la lang...

cguro eto ako:

8. The handsome men, who are not so nice and [somewhat heterosexual] heterosexual, don't think we are beautiful enough.

May problema ba pag ganyan ako? not throwing a thing besides na mayabang na kung mayabang... hehehe... just confuse here... thanks po...

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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #35 on: August 02, 2011, 02:47:47 pm »
I think its too much expectation and fear of commitment...

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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #36 on: August 07, 2011, 10:12:29 am »
there is no such thing as  man of your dreams....sometimes you have to wake up to find the man for you... ;)
-- tama.. kasi kahit kaming mga lalaki minsan na sosobrahan sa kaka-dream.. dapat mas ang reality para makahanap ng dream partner in real life..

Onga pala, "the perfect guy" is meant for "the perfect girl". Otherwise, hindi kayo magki-click. Hindi rin tuloy "perfect".

--tama.. huwag perfect ang hanapin.. baka ikaw din sabihin mo ang mga linyang, "sorry ah nagkamali ako!!, pasensya na kasi I'm not perfect like you".. o kaya naman ganitong mga linya, "o sige na ikaw na tama! bobo kasi ako eh!!"

minsan kasi n-o-overlook na ung mga plus factor qualities sa halip na maging complimenting ay nagiging negating pa... kaya turn our dreams o tune our dreams with reality... rather than looking for someone perfect, mas puwede pa ung ang hanapin ay yung kahit hindi kayo perfect pero perfectly meant kayo for each other...

I think its too much expectation and fear of commitment...
--i agree.. not too much expectation dapat ready to compromise din.. para our partners would compromise din about us..

these is for both genders...




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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #37 on: August 07, 2011, 11:49:30 am »
I am NUMBER FOUR!  ;D  toast::
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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #38 on: August 09, 2011, 06:27:02 pm »

OT:

Bro astig yang signature mo, nadidetect nya ip, isp, os, and browser used... ;D
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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #39 on: August 10, 2011, 11:09:35 am »
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Bro astig yang signature mo, nadidetect nya ip, isp, os, and browser used... ;D


thanks thanks thanks  ;D




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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #40 on: August 10, 2011, 10:56:48 pm »
thanks thanks thanks  ;D

How did you do that  :D
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Re: Reasons why women find it hard to find the man of their dreams..
« Reply #41 on: August 22, 2011, 01:04:02 pm »
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How did you do that  :D

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