Topic: Q: Is Being Over Weight Give Your Partner a High Reason To Cheat? >'<

[FerminaDaza]

Those images have appeared all over Internet lately and made a lot of *Body Positive Peeps like me,decry the horrible image as hurtful,fat shaming xoxo 
The  images was used by a well known "cheating" Or Extra Marital Affairs Website: http://www.ashleymadison.com/ It's kind of a dating site for a "married" person 

And the retaliation of the model herself http://jezebel.com/5857045/im-the-scary-model-in-that-awful-ashley-madison-ad
The model, who gives her name as simply “Jacqueline,” is a BBW model and owner of her own fetish website.
In the article for Jezebel, she describes an “informal” photography session with a friend, early on in her career. The photos were then later sold to various stock photography websites, where they could be used for just about anything.
And as Jacqueline puts it :

I am a size 32. I am beautiful. I think women of all sizes are beautiful. Beauty is not and has never been one-size-fits-all. I do not appreciate my image being used, without notice or permission, to tell women I have never met otherwise.

Ashley Madison responded to the Jezebel post with the following public statement, proving that not only do they have terrible taste and no class, they also have no soul 

The best thing that could’ve happened to this woman is that we used her in our ad. Despite what she may want you to think, she is reaping the press for her own pornography website. She took these pictures and signed the release knowing that they were not just for ‘personal use.’ However, if she can get great publicity from this, all the power to her.

And Ashley Madison wants you to Respect Whore ^http://jezebel.com/5757882/adultery-website-founder-wants-your-respect-you-whore?tag=ashleymadison



Anyways, Back to Question,hanu ba talaga mga kuya's , Women can’t be loved if they’re overweight ba? Is that a Common Reason To CHEAT on your supersized partner po?

 

jozko,I personally have a hard time keeping up,may pagka chubaboy din ako at times pag di nagpipigil!
Lahat ng kinakain ko agad napupunta sa biceps ko at belly !  tas pag nag diet naman ako nawawala ang bebe at arse pambihira !   But I really don't like being THIN as stick,#WhatILove is being CURVED & HEALTHY (pampalubag -loob)  #DietHormones&Happiness


  

[TobleRONe]

personally, its not a reason or an excuse to cheat. in the first place di ako pumapatol sa BBW.

Sa chubby, pumapatol ako pero i dont find it as a reason to cheat.

hanggang chubby lang ako, ayaw ko ng sobrang sebo. 

[zenith]

Yes, it will give you partner a lot to think about.
Lets not be hypocrite, sino ba naman gusto na katabi mo e triple ang laki sayo, we are all attracted by physical attraction.

no offense to those who are obese. pero you should take care of yourselves not only for your health, but also for your partner. 

[FerminaDaza]

mga ate,sya si Adriana Lima model ng Victoria's Secret,30 years old and have a 2yrs old daughter...She recently told http://fashion.telegraph.co.uk/news-features/TMG8872623/Victorias-Secret-show-What-does-it-take-to-be-a-Victorias-Secret-Angel.html how she prefers herself on a runway and be ready for the largest fashion the world where scantly-dressed models show off Victoria’s Secrets latest lingerie–and believe me, her exercise routine may be acceptable, but her diet is shocking.

She sees a nutritionist, who has measured her body’s muscle mass, fat ratio and levels of water retention. He prescribes protein shakes, vitamins and supplements to keep Lima’s energy levels up during this training period. Lima drinks a gallon of water a day. For nine days before the show she will drink only protein shakes – “no solids”. The concoctions include powdered egg.

“No liquids at all so you dry out, sometimes you can lose up to eight pounds just from that,” Lima said.

Ugh. Is She training for a marathon /26.2 mile run    Sigh. Hahanap na lang me ng partner na pag ka Bruno Mars ! TOINKSSS

@ Toble & Zenith,thanks sa honesty bros  *root beer*

[redrhoan]

Ugh. Is She training for a marathon /26.2 mile run    Sigh. Hahanap na lang me ng partner na pag ka Bruno Mars ! TOINKSSS [/color]

Hmm.. i dont get the bruno mars reference.. is he into BBW?

[FerminaDaza]

Hmm.. i dont get the bruno mars reference.. is he into BBW?

sabe kasi ni Bruno po ....coz you're amazing Just the way you are   

[w88_108]

ganito na lang.. huwag namang puro girls lang ang dapat mag-maintain ng body... kasi kahit mga lalake nag-me-maintain din ng body not just for ourselves but for our partners too... maybe hindi lahat...

[Ilonggo-by-blood]

sabe kasi ni Bruno po ....coz you're amazing Just the way you are   

maniwala ka diyan kay Bruno sexy din hanap niyan! 

The thing is kung you respect your self you have to respect your physical features! Kung pabaya ka rin sa body mo like you smoke alot eat alot well your partner although mahal ka magsasawa rin yan sa masebu!

to maintain the passion you have to be healthy and pretty.. Not the only factor to cheat but for sure a Factor to cheat

[botyokin]

dre, atin-atin lang to ha, i encounter also this kind of delimma, nung una nagkare;asyon kami chubby lang cya,malamam kung baga katamtaman.. pero indi ko akalain tumagal kami lumobo cya..ayoko po masaktan yung damdamin ng girl..pero nagpaparinig na ako sa kanya na u have to decipline urself,eat less, excercise...pero sabi nya " d mo pa rin ba ako accept as a whole?.."....ano po gawin ko?

[-=Kurabo=-]

dre, atin-atin lang to ha, i encounter also this kind of delimma, nung una nagkare;asyon kami chubby lang cya,malamam kung baga katamtaman.. pero indi ko akalain tumagal kami lumobo cya..ayoko po masaktan yung damdamin ng girl..pero nagpaparinig na ako sa kanya na u have to decipline urself,eat less, excercise...pero sabi nya " d mo pa rin ba ako accept as a whole?.."....ano po gawin ko?

hiwalayan mo at kapag nadepress yan sure na papayat yan joke 

pero mas maganda sana kung sabihin mo sa kanya in a nice way na kahi papano alagaan niya sarili hindi dahil sa pumapanget siya pero dahil ayaw mo mabyudo ng de oras

[botyokin]

hiwalayan mo at kapag nadepress yan sure na papayat yan joke 

pero mas maganda sana kung sabihin mo sa kanya in a nice way na kahi papano alagaan niya sarili hindi dahil sa pumapanget siya pero dahil ayaw mo mabyudo ng de oras

maraming salamat sa advice dre..

[FerminaDaza]

dre, atin-atin lang to ha, i encounter also this kind of delimma, nung una nagkare;asyon kami chubby lang cya,malamam kung baga katamtaman.. pero indi ko akalain tumagal kami lumobo cya..ayoko po masaktan yung damdamin ng girl..pero nagpaparinig na ako sa kanya na u have to decipline urself,eat less, excercise...pero sabi nya " d mo pa rin ba ako accept as a whole?.."....ano po gawin ko?

hi dre! i-encourage mo na lang po sya lage mag exercise and eat less (at least maintain a good waistline  ) assure mo sya that you are with her every STEP of the way.You love her so much that you just care about her HEALTH too.

I was reminded of an 'ex' iyun kakaiba , gusto mataba ako! ayaw me namamayat di ko daw bagay ! 


Anyways,I believe that love for self is first and foremost the priority... because with that, you will not have the true capacity to love someone else.

We owe our partners that...Never STOP trying to be Attractive. Don't wear t-shirts @ night,a little lingerie will not harm anyone-soO keep that waistline small 

[botyokin]

...salamat sa advice mga ka espiya,.. 

[FerminaDaza]

ganito na lang.. huwag namang puro girls lang ang dapat mag-maintain ng body... kasi kahit mga lalake nag-me-maintain din ng body not just for ourselves but for our partners too... maybe hindi lahat...

Thanks Ron ! and Having said that,eto naman ang story ng Over weight na guy. Sa mga kuya na w/ the same dilemma look nyu to po:

http://www.syracuse.com/news/index.ssf/2011/11/fulton_mans_weight_loss_story.html

Telling Your Honey He's Fat Is a Sign of True Love ! yan pino-point out sa story ni Jay at Ni Angela Wornick. 



at see mas sexy na si JAY !

 

[Ilonggo-by-blood]

dre, atin-atin lang to ha, i encounter also this kind of delimma, nung una nagkare;asyon kami chubby lang cya,malamam kung baga katamtaman.. pero indi ko akalain tumagal kami lumobo cya..ayoko po masaktan yung damdamin ng girl..pero nagpaparinig na ako sa kanya na u have to decipline urself,eat less, excercise...pero sabi nya " d mo pa rin ba ako accept as a whole?.."....ano po gawin ko?

sabi niya ayusin mo mag type para kang jejemon Grow up! 


anyway sabihin mo I won't accept you as a whole as a half pwede ang laki mo na eh