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i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« on: October 20, 2011, 07:18:39 pm »
bakit ganun? nakakairita na kasi, he always told me i'm beautiful.. tuloy ang nasa isip ko he only loved my beauty (though di naman ako kagandahan) and not the real me  :(
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #1 on: October 20, 2011, 07:43:10 pm »
coz you feel like it's generic...and/or insincere since it's being repeatedly uttered. Take it as a complement but also remind the guy that he doesnt always have to say that coz it's starting to come across as just a mere habit
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #2 on: October 20, 2011, 07:51:18 pm »
Quote from: typeone on October 20, 2011, 07:43:10 pm
coz you feel like it's generic...and/or insincere since it's being repeatedly uttered. Take it as a complement but also remind the guy that he doesnt always have to say that coz it's starting to come across as just a mere habit

I agree. When a compliment is seldom mentioned, it becomes more special. Pero kung palagi na nga lang binibigkas na parang wala lang, parang flattery na lang.
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #3 on: October 20, 2011, 07:53:16 pm »
ang nakikita niya siguro ay ang inner beauty mo... Hindi naman lahat ng lalake ay tumitingin sa panlabas na kagandahan... always give credit to that person...
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #4 on: October 20, 2011, 08:10:14 pm »
I  guess you're right. medyo nakakapagod na kasi pakinggan. i always hear it from my ex's tapos ngayon ganun pa rin. wala na bang iba?

what i have in my mind now-- they have same blood..... coz they said the same stupid lines ever!
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #5 on: October 20, 2011, 09:28:16 pm »
panu pag sinabi nyang panget ka, your not beautiful? o db? mas ok na ung sabihin nyang maganda ka kesa kung ano pa sabihin nya.  ::flowers
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #6 on: October 21, 2011, 12:24:17 am »
I guess naman you can feel it if it is being said in sincere or in flattery mode...
Kung in flattery talagang nakakainis di ba kung habit na lang...
or there are some guys just really know how to appreciate beauty... both the inner and outer ones...

try asking him... what does he see in you na your beautiful and what makes him smile? :)


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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #7 on: October 21, 2011, 01:40:58 am »
... just be optimistic...  our KA-espiya are right that telling you the same as always, is boring and something like its just like a joke,,, (no meaning anymore).. its really difficult to advise something like this because its a pure emotional effect.. -pangit naman kung sasabihi ka ng bf mo na pangit ka,, na iirita ka naman rin na palagi kang sinasabihan na maganda ka. see?

like as i've said... just cheer up.. try to ask personally your bf why, how, and what's the reason... kaw na bahala... its in YOU...

beautiful... ::flowers
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #8 on: October 21, 2011, 05:38:58 am »
Quote from: Ginger on October 20, 2011, 07:18:39 pm
bakit ganun? nakakairita na kasi, he always told me i'm beautiful.. tuloy ang nasa isip ko he only loved my beauty (though di naman ako kagandahan) and not the real me  :(

Try to post your picture here ma'am baka makatulong kami para naman ma figure out natin kung nag sisinungaling ba yung bf mo oh hindi.
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #9 on: October 21, 2011, 05:48:43 am »
siguro pangit ka at alam mo lang na binobola ka, kaya ganun feeling mo. laffman::
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #10 on: October 21, 2011, 07:23:10 am »
maybe you don't love him enough or you don't love him at all ??? just my opinion though.
dati kasi ganyan din ako, parang sa una lang masya tapos a few months later nakakatamad na, parang lahat ng sinasabi nya eh nakakairita na lang.



but now I'm with the girl of my dreams  ::lmao
almost 3 years na kami.
everything she say to me still sounds sweet. and no matter how many times she says I love you, it just gets better and better.



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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #11 on: October 21, 2011, 11:04:16 am »
Quote from: spinach on October 21, 2011, 05:38:58 am
Try to post your picture here ma'am baka makatulong kami para naman ma figure out natin kung nag sisinungaling ba yung bf mo oh hindi.
Ou nga naman. cge post mo picture mo maam, kami na huhusga kung karapat dapat nga bang araw arawin ang pagtawag sayo ng "BeautifuL"  :applause
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #12 on: October 21, 2011, 11:25:24 am »
Dun sa babaeng mahal na mahal ko lagi kong sinasabi na maganda siya, maski sabihin niya na "ano ba yan eh mukha nga akong bruha ngayon" ang sagot ko "kasi mahal kita at lahat ng oras ay maganda ka sa tingin ko" kaya lagi kong sinasabi na maganda siya.
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #13 on: October 21, 2011, 01:46:34 pm »
Quote from: Ginger on October 20, 2011, 07:18:39 pm
bakit ganun? nakakairita na kasi, he always told me i'm beautiful.. tuloy ang nasa isip ko he only loved my beauty (though di naman ako kagandahan) and not the real me  :(

arte mo naman. pabayaan mo at ibe break ka rin nun kapag nakakita sya ng mag appreciate ng mga praises nya.

maganda ka sa paningin nya kasi lab ka nya...

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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #14 on: October 21, 2011, 03:09:07 pm »
post mo na lang pic mo sis para makita natin... baka naman tunay talaga
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #15 on: October 21, 2011, 04:00:07 pm »
Quote from: bakekong12345678 on October 21, 2011, 03:09:07 pm
post mo na lang pic mo sis para makita natin... baka naman tunay talaga
diretsahan na yata yan..  ::)
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #16 on: October 21, 2011, 06:21:33 pm »
not true at all..

I'm always saying, I love her, that she's beautiful that she's sexy that she's the most beautiful girl ever..
"because that's the truth"..
at least in my my eyes and in my heart its true...

A simple "thank you" for me is enough to comfort me..

**depende kasi yan sainyo ehh..
**kun san kau masaya dun kayo.. masama bang puriin ka ng tao minuminuto?? pasalamat ka at pinupuri ka, kesa walang paki sayo... at sasabihing maganda ka kung me kelangan sayo o sa katawan mo..

ding...dong... gising...pasalamat ka sa BF mo..
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #17 on: October 22, 2011, 12:09:48 am »
Quote from: Ginger on October 20, 2011, 08:10:14 pm
I  guess you're right. medyo nakakapagod na kasi pakinggan. i always hear it from my ex's tapos ngayon ganun pa rin. wala na bang iba?

what i have in my mind now-- they have same blood..... coz they said the same stupid lines ever!

::flowers  but sablayin ko lang ng onti sis ha...peace tyu ! and you can correct me always po.

IMHO,most of us have a past of some kind and leave us us with some kind of HISTORY.AND IT'S VERY EASY TO LET THAT GET IN THE WAY OF THE NEXT ROMANCE...BUT EACH PARTNER IS NEW...IF THERE'S SOMETHING THAT HAPPEN OR HAVE RESEMBLANCE FROM YOUR LAST,IF YOU REALLY THINK THEY ARE EXACTLY THE SAME,YOU BETTER START THINKING na talaga [i mean ,as they said ,we can't have a different result if we are doing the same thing over & over]  Pero,minsan ang problema, medyo assuming tyu.Not because pareho sila ng sinasabe,is LIKELY same din sya ni EX...Sa ganang akin lang,wak naman sanang si new romance ay ma-JUDGE dahil lang 'it reminds you of something your Ex have been from the past.Hindi naman SADYA maybe or even alam yun ni new romance mo po. HIRAP din kasi yun ginagamit natin panukat sa dating relasyun ay ganun pa din sa bagong relasyun. sabe nga nila Don't Tar New Parnerts With OLD BRUSHES. So,onting unawa na muna ang self-searching,Know what you want now in a relationship and make that your Standard/those traits that you can't pass up ,then check those DEAL BREAKER kind of,yun mga maliliit na bagay na hindi naman magdi-determine ng stability ng isang relasyun example : hair color,skin,etc more on physical...

And,as I always said If little things annoys you,says so with HUMOR :

BF: You're Beautiful...

Ginger : I KNOW!! anu pa?  ;D

BF: You're Beautiful 2x

Ginger : Did you know that James Blunt song 'you're beautiful' was voted as One of most annoying song everrrr  ::) ;D

BF: You're Beautiful

Ginger:  para kang cockatoo!

BF: you're Beautiful

Ginger: thinking mode : what will I miss w/this guy as soon as i break up with him?...


...I personally had experience a guy keep telling me "I Love You!" shocks,wala na ba syang sasabihin kundi 'i love you?!' until one day that very thing that annoys me is the very thing I missed when it's gone.obviously  ;D

Anyways,to end my novel na,Sis,keep the communication.tell him exactly what do you want and what makes you HAPPY .Any man who Truly wish the same for you will always Oblige to do so  ::flowers

...don't stay with a partner who doesn't care .DON'T.



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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #18 on: October 25, 2011, 12:48:08 pm »




That's all I can share. Kayo na bhala magjudge  ;)
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #19 on: October 25, 2011, 12:50:25 pm »
Quote from: SuPekTiBol on October 20, 2011, 09:28:16 pm
panu pag sinabi nyang panget ka, your not beautiful? o db? mas ok na ung sabihin nyang maganda ka kesa kung ano pa sabihin nya.  ::flowers

Wag naman ganun.. Ok nga pero feeling fo kasi paulit-ulit na lang nakakairita na minsan.
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #20 on: October 25, 2011, 12:52:47 pm »
Hindi ka naman masyadong beautiful, Ginger. Okay lang. 7/10. Sige na nga, 7.1. Hindi kita iniirita ha.
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #21 on: October 25, 2011, 12:55:37 pm »
Quote from: xypherman on October 21, 2011, 12:24:17 am
I guess naman you can feel it if it is being said in sincere or in flattery mode...
Kung in flattery talagang nakakainis di ba kung habit na lang...
or there are some guys just really know how to appreciate beauty... both the inner and outer ones...

try asking him... what does he see in you na your beautiful and what makes him smile? :)


peace...
Quote from: Julius_TOR on October 21, 2011, 01:40:58 am
... just be optimistic...  our KA-espiya are right that telling you the same as always, is boring and something like its just like a joke,,, (no meaning anymore).. its really difficult to advise something like this because its a pure emotional effect.. -pangit naman kung sasabihi ka ng bf mo na pangit ka,, na iirita ka naman rin na palagi kang sinasabihan na maganda ka. see?

like as i've said... just cheer up.. try to ask personally your bf why, how, and what's the reason... kaw na bahala... its in YOU...

beautiful... ::flowers

Quote from: comsci24 on October 21, 2011, 07:23:10 am
maybe you don't love him enough or you don't love him at all ??? just my opinion though.
dati kasi ganyan din ako, parang sa una lang masya tapos a few months later nakakatamad na, parang lahat ng sinasabi nya eh nakakairita na lang.



but now I'm with the girl of my dreams  ::lmao
almost 3 years na kami.
everything she say to me still sounds sweet. and no matter how many times she says I love you, it just gets better and better.







Well, minsan naman kinikilig ako, cguro mali lang timing nya. minsan ksi wala ako sa mood kaya nakakairita minsan lagi wrong timing
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #22 on: October 25, 2011, 12:57:37 pm »
Quote from: Paprika on October 25, 2011, 12:52:47 pm
Hindi ka naman masyadong beautiful, Ginger. Okay lang. 7/10. Sige na nga, 7.1. Hindi kita iniirita ha.

yun na nga eh. hindi naman talaga ako maganda  :)
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #23 on: October 25, 2011, 12:59:28 pm »
Quote from: Ginger on October 25, 2011, 12:57:37 pm
yun na nga eh. hindi naman talaga ako maganda  :)

Basketbolista ba boypren mo? Bolero kasi.
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Re: i'm annoyed whenever he says i'm beautiful
« Reply #24 on: October 25, 2011, 01:00:56 pm »
Quote from: Paprika on October 25, 2011, 12:59:28 pm
Basketbolista ba boypren mo? Bolero kasi.

hindi ah. di ako mahilig sa mga player. nurse sya
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