"Sorry , Ladies, but you need to just sit back, take it, and learn to cope with men
and their faults...what you see is what you get; men are the way they are.if you don't like it,
change yourself to accomodate the man in your life." That's pure fiction.
Men can choose a different path-that they can be trained 
1. Ignore bad behavior Don’t make a fuss. Ignore the bad behavior and ignore him too.
A man’s brain is not programmed to listen to a woman carry on about what he’s done wrong.
We know from experience men mostly tune that out. What he is programmed to notice is your absence.
So, if he messes up and all of the sudden you aren’t around for awhile, that will get his attention.
Sometimes awhile means a few minutes, sometimes much longer. After reappearing on his radar
you get the opportunity to let him know, he did xyz and you won’t be hanging around for that in
the future either.
"men don't respond to words they response to NC/distance/silence"
Don't give reward for bad behavior either. 
2. Catch your man doing something, anything right, and reward and praise, reward and praise,
reward and praise. Seriously, men are wired to want to please. The best way to train a man to please you is
by making a big freaking deal out of it when it happens.
Treats in all forms are appreciated. The more praise the more good behavior.
"sometimes,make him feel he's your 'Conan,KingKong,Dingdong Dantes' 
OR focus on his positive attitudes & attributes.3. Use fewer words When you’re trying to train a man to do something or stop doing something, tell him what you’d like
him to be doing, in as few words as possible. Don’t go on to explain yourself unless he asks for
an explanation. If he messes up again, repeat the very same few words again. Repetition is key.
Don’t get pissed. Don’t raise your voice. Calmly tell him what you’d like him to do, in fewer words
then you’d normally want to use. Be prepared to be patient and don’t expect him to be a mind reader.
He isn’t.
Life with a man is a constant show and tell.4. A chased dog always runs. remember as what bro kmerc had posted before
http://espiya.net/forum/index.php/topic,137150.msg1099624.html#msg1099624 We all had the miserable experience of a dog gone loose and having to chase after a dog
we aren’t going to catch, praying for mercy or a miracle. The same applies to men.
You have to get out in front of them or persuade them to come to you because you have something
they don’t have and they want. Men need breathing room and if they don’t get enough training will fail.
You’ve got to keep them guessing to keep them wanting more.
Men are like rubber band they spring back (please allow them to gaze
in the fire / or the space to be themselves 
5. Don’t get a man if you don’t have the time to devote to training. Obviously some men require more training and others less. However, all women are different,
so no matter what, he’s going to need to learn how you want to be treated.
If you don’t have the time or energy to invest in a relationship, don’t hop in haphazardly.
You won’t get the behavior you want or the love you’re looking for.
Be part of their life.If you are not involved in your partner's life,
what are you there for ?
All credit goes to Miss Lisa Hayes-Relationship Coach
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