mam baket po ba paulit-ulit at ang kulit ng ka live-in ko? 
mag 2yrs na kami pero pansin ko lng habng tumatagal parang ang kulit na e 
kahit sa simpleng bagay pinapalaki,dami reklamo! Anu po ba ang masasabe ko
sa ka-live in ko para hindi na sya paulit-ulit? salamat mam 
Teka,eto muna kadugtong sa Title ng thread : Why Women Nag?
And Men don't Listen. 
para patas ang laban.toinks!
Nagging ~ when someone just won't let upFirst Off,share ko muna
How Women Listen and Men Listen 
Here is a typical 10 secs sequence of a woman showing she is listening:
Here is the same range of facial expressions used by a man in a 10secs listening period:
...baka po dyan pa lang brad e may idea ka na,baket nga ba nag naNAG ?
ganun din ba reactions
mo po pag -kausap ka ni misis he he
Anyways,on a serious notes,i have said many times na din Men & Women are different NOT better
or worse Just different.both have different hard wiring on their psyche since birth pa
So,as Not to bore you guys again,pwede skip muna natin yun details explanation sa ating
pag kakaiba mentally muna...(at antok na din ako
) Focus tyu sa women na naNAG.
Nagging Can be a Cry for Recognition.-Nagging is a sign that a woman wants more...more recognition to her partners or if you have kids,
a recognition from her family for what she has given so far and she wants to be appreciated.
-If the woman in your life is Nagging you,then she has something to tell you and you're NOT listening,
So she's going to keep on telling you until you do.
but here's the rub
@ Ladies The reason a man is Not listening because You are Not approaching
him the right way.Women habitually approach men the wrong way with
INDIRECT TALK. Oh yan ha patas lang ako
Kaya mga GUYS,if you are being honest to yourself and admits a bit of truth and recognizes
that
Nagging is usually a cry for recognition,you could quickly Turn the situation into
win/win. Sabe nga,
The greatest urge in human nature is to feel Important.@ back to
Ladies,this applies to couples or yun ngasasama sa iisang bubong,Give your man
sometime naman specially coming from work.pa recoup muna kanilang energies
before they'll
be ready to talk.Kasi aman some women,however,are eveready to talk and want to talk immediately.
Don't Nag them-Train them You have to set the agenda,tell him ,you need to talk to him
and ask him when or what time you can discuss it.And give him one thing at a time.
@ Men,If you know you are being nagged or as a victim,try asking yourself :
- Are you listening to the other person?
-Do you understand the other person's frustration?
-Do you recognize / appreciate the other person's for her work especially doing all chores?
-Are you just plain lazy and uncaring?
-Is there some anger on your side,which motivates your unwillingness to listen?
-Do You Want To Be Happy?If you want to be happy,are you prepared to sit down with the other person and talk it out? @ ladies...And the Challenge for a Nagger :
-Are you behaving like parents towards him?
-Do you insist INSTANT action,regardless of the needs of the other person at the time?
-Do you CONTINUALLY repeat your Demands?
If you answer YES to any of those questions,here's what you can & be willing to do :
-Tell him what is frustrating you.
-Agree for a time frame for your requests.
-STOP Repeating yourself.
-State your needs,then Stop & Listen to his response
-Seek input from your partner.He may have a better idea .(
believe me guys wants to be a heroes )
-Avoid 'YOU' statements,to lower his guard or cause resistance
-*What are you doing to improve your OWN SELF-IMAGE?
-
Do You Want To Be Happy?Because the Basis of nagging is truth,the victim must accept equal responsibility
for nagging.NAGGING is the RESULT OF POOR COMMUNICATION. @ Espiya Republic , again as always feel free to comment
appropriatelyto avoid
boljak at
maboljak din si ako. TOINKS!
Thanks Espiya.net
more that I try to share,Much that I help myself too
