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Let us talk about DEPRESSION
« on: October 29, 2013, 09:13:17 am »
Matagal ko ng gustong magpost dito about depression. Marami kasi tayong misconception about depression.

For Starters: What is depression?

According kay Merriam-Webster:

a serious medical condition in which a person feels very sad, hopeless, and unimportant and often is unable to live in a normal way

parang ang hirap paniwalaan di ba? serious medical condition daw... read on if interested pa kayo.

According din sa Article na ito last 2012:
http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/229227/suicides-up-in-last-20-years-in-ph-mostly-among-young-nso
7 out of 200,000 men commit suicide and
2 out of 200,000 women commit suicide.

Shocking di ba mas madaming lalaking nagsu-suicide. Although sabi sa article not all who commit suicide ay dahil sa depression daw. Some commit suicide dahil sa sakit or nawalan ng trabaho. Pero iyon nga ang pinagmumulan ng depression, sakit na malala or financial problems and others.

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Bakit kaya mas maraming lalaking nagsu-suicide? Read on again:

“The term ‘depression,’ conjures images of a sad, teary person who stays in bed all day, unable to eat or otherwise function — these traditional symptoms are what we’ve used to diagnose depression,” Lisa Martin, PhD, an assistant professor of women's and gender studies and health policy studies at the University of Michigan-Dearborn, told Yahoo Shine. “However, since men are socialized to toughen up and be stoic during hard times, when a man becomes depressed, we wouldn't necessarily know it.”


Read full article here:
http://shine.yahoo.com/healthy-living/the-surprising-truth-about-men-and-depression--165535021.html

Since lalaki tayo, matatag tayo, malakas, wala yan sa atin. Kaya hindi natin napupuna, depressed na pala tayo.
and by the time na marealize natin, maaring huli na. Hence, kaya mas mataas ang suicide rate ng lalaki kesa sa babae.

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Paano natin malalaman kung depressed na pala tayo. Narito ang ilan sa mga signs at symptoms ng Depression:

1. Persistent sad, anxious, or "empty" feelings.

2. Feelings of hopelessness, worthlessness, or helplessness.

3. Frequent crying episodes.

4. Increased agitation and restlessness.

5. Fatigue and decreased energy.

6. Loss of interest in activities or hobbies that were once pleasurable.

7. Difficulty concentrating, remembering details, and making decisions.

8. Sleeping too much or not enough.

9. Poor appetite or overeating.

10. Expressing thoughts of dying or suicide.

11. Persistent aches or pains, headaches, cramps, or digestive problems that don't ease with treatment.

para sa karagdagan explanation para sa 11 symptoms, nandito:
http://health.yahoo.net/articles/depression/11-warning-signs-depression

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Ngayon kung napuna mo nang depressed ka, paano ito malulunasan?
Go out with friends, have fun, Do Fun stuff, hoping na mapapataas ng masasayang gawain ang serotonin sa iyong katawan.

Pero paano kung lahat ng ginagawa mo ay wala ng saya? Or hindi sapat para pataasin ang "serotonin levels" mo, dito na papasok ang medication. Dahil nasa malalang sitwasyon ka na.

More article about depression:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/male-depression/MC00041

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Siguro isang araw magkukwento ako about depression sa confession room at kung gaano ito nakakatakot para sa akin.

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Re: Let us talk about DEPRESSION
« Reply #1 on: October 29, 2013, 09:36:01 am »
Nice article. finger4u

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Re: Let us talk about DEPRESSION
« Reply #2 on: October 29, 2013, 09:46:58 am »
guys tend to keep what they think and feel to themselves. kelangan merong napagsasabihan at nakakausap ang mga taong stressed out. pag hindi akma ang coping o defense mechanism ng isang taong stressed, it can lead to depression or other psychological and physical problems.

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Re: Let us talk about DEPRESSION
« Reply #3 on: October 29, 2013, 09:59:40 am »
nyahaha depress pala ako... ang daming symptons na applicable sa akin

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Re: Let us talk about DEPRESSION
« Reply #4 on: October 29, 2013, 10:44:57 am »
good share toble! help increase awareness especially sa inyung mga hunks  :D

i've red somewhere before, can't remember if it's Richard Branson's book screw it, let's do it!.who said that ' emotionally available man is more successful...nobody can disturb me when am sitting down with my wife and talk about my day! ' :)

anyhu, men & women suffer from depression, instead of looking or relying on medication- being *grateful  is a panacea for depression.You CAN'T be depressed and grateful at the same time.

always remember: thought leads to feeling.feeling to action. action equals result.the battleground is in our mind. Change your thoughts, Change your life.  next time you feel depressed (especially men) Learn to accept *failure.You have the power to turn everything in a positive way no matter how sux you think it is.



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Re: Let us talk about DEPRESSION
« Reply #5 on: October 29, 2013, 11:54:54 am »
as far as i can tell, sa babae kasi sa early stage pa lang ng depression naagapan pa.

sa lalaki kasi gaya ng sabi ni raging hormones: "guys tend to keep what they think and feel to themselves" kaya sa lalaki madalas too late na to keep on thinking happy thoughts. kaya ang solution is meds na. unless sa umpisa pa lang marereliaze na ng guys na depressed sila.

sa case ko it was too late. lahat ng symptoms dyan sa list nagmanifest and more pa. kaya bago pa ako makapanakit ng tao, i was prescribed with 2 meds agad. one to immediately increase my serotonin and another meds para kumalma ako.

kung bakit ko nasabing too late, saka na kapag sinipag na akong magkwento, mahaba eh
(oi, pero di ako nagsuicide :D )

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Re: Let us talk about DEPRESSION
« Reply #6 on: October 29, 2013, 07:21:13 pm »
Key to this is to keep yourself busy, active lifestyle or maybe a new hobby? Wag masyado mag console or computer games, be a casual gamer at most.

Goodluck and I have been there before  toast::

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Re: Let us talk about DEPRESSION
« Reply #7 on: October 29, 2013, 07:46:10 pm »
keep yourself busy, but not with work all the time.

again sa case ko (sarili ko na ang gagawin kong example), ginamit ko yung time ko puro sa work, para makalimutan ang problema. pero it got worse. need pa rin natin ng recreation, time for ourself and for family. Simple things like watching a movie with your family helps.

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Re: Let us talk about DEPRESSION
« Reply #8 on: October 30, 2013, 05:06:25 am »
lemme share just another story what ppl do when they are depressed.

Depressed man cuts his own sex organ after failing to find love   #sadsies.




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Re: Let us talk about DEPRESSION
« Reply #9 on: October 30, 2013, 07:00:30 am »
If you are going through hell, keep going. - gen. patton