Taken at its face, yun title ng thread ay generic - pwede male or female ang nagtatanong. Being single myself, enjoy pa nga ako na third party ako. Yun mga gf ko eh mga wives - at hindi mga single mom or sep. Some would say dangerous yun pero yun nga ang challenge, dba. Anyway, tinigilan ko na ganun lifestyle.
For a lady, it is one of those things na nararanasan when passing this earthly existence. Ang importante lang dyan ay to get the lesson from the experience. You learn the lessons of life and become more street smart. Kaya masakit sa yo yun kasi inakala mo na binata si guy so you felt betrayed. Napakasakit ang betrayal at yang betrayal na yan ay marami ng sinirang buhay. At betrayal din ang nagpaikot ng kasaysayan ng mundo. Hence, pag gusto mo na ikaw lang, do your homework also and not be blinded by the color of the bulaklak or the brand of the chocolates or the model of his car - check on the guy surreptitiously before plunging further.
Kaya sa mga lalaki naman, pag kukuha naman kasi kayo ng another gf aside from the wife/gf, ipagtapat nyo agad sa "target" na may asawa kayo or in a relationship. Kun gusto kayo ni "target" maski may sabit eh di tuloy lang ang ligaya. Note that it always takes two to tango. So long as mutual consent naman eh so be it, let the good times roll as long as alam ng bawat isa ang rules of the game.