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andrew

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problem on having a hard on
« on: April 29, 2014, 06:42:58 am »
I have a gf of 7 yrs, and now after 7 yrs of hot sex im having a problem on having a hard penis..i can no longer keep my penis hard 4 my gf though she is still very hot..im in late 20's, any advice on what to do? Tnx

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Re: problem on having a hard on
« Reply #1 on: April 29, 2014, 06:54:21 am »
posibleng nagsasawa ka having sex with your GF. posibleng psychological dahil nagsasawa ka na dahil ang tagal nyo na

talk to your GF about it. and i suggest do role playing

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Re: problem on having a hard on
« Reply #2 on: April 29, 2014, 08:56:10 am »
There are so many reasons why you're having problem on having a hard penis. Some men have the same problems like yours. These problems occurs at any age but they are most common in older men. First you need to know what might be the causes. Here are some causes you might want to consider:

1. Health problems such as high blood, diabetes, depression etc.
2. Stress
3. Being alcoholic and smoking
4. Past surgery or medical history
5. Physical problems
6. Psychological matters
7. Lifestyle changes
8. Medicines you are currently taking
9. Not having exercise at all
10. Sexual expectation
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Re: problem on having a hard on
« Reply #3 on: April 29, 2014, 09:11:54 am »
I have a gf of 7 yrs, and now after 7 yrs of hot sex im having a problem on having a hard penis..i can no longer *keep my penis hard 4 my gf though she is still very hot..im in late 20's, any advice on what to do? Tnx


Just to echo what Toble said, it could be psychological reason or even physical (stress related, if you're under certain medication)... Somehow may mga variations din ,sex when you're in early 20's is very different when you're 30's,40's sort of that (depende na lang if talagang wala ka ng erection)... And yes, you'll be needing the support of your gf, this kind of issue might take a stall in your relationship if not discuss. Proper communication also is an INTIMACY builder (truth telling is the by product of intimacy) You can think of other *new things to do to add more juice/passion sa relationship.O sometimes just sit close with your gf,cuddle-up, those things that you can do that does not necessarily would lead to sex.Ease up and don't feel pressured.

and of course don't hesitate to seek professional help that will guide you to more clarity and treat the cause.











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Re: problem on having a hard on
« Reply #4 on: April 29, 2014, 10:28:13 am »
normal yan, that's why you have to explore new things. explore new holes :D

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Re: problem on having a hard on
« Reply #5 on: April 29, 2014, 10:39:27 am »
it's all in the mind.. ;D

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Re: problem on having a hard on
« Reply #6 on: April 30, 2014, 05:27:43 am »

baka lalaki na gusto ni TS hahaha :p

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Re: problem on having a hard on
« Reply #7 on: July 05, 2014, 11:30:25 am »
normal yan, that's why you have to explore new things. explore new holes :D

natawa ako dito.. idol talaga. tibay sa banat. oo nga experiment. try new holes.  finger4u