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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #75 on: August 14, 2013, 06:26:52 am »
yeah, really creepy.  makes use do a double take on people who we let in our lives.  hey TS, how was your stalker before he became a stalker?  i mean where did you meet, etc, and when did he turn from friend to stalker?

We met thru a common friend... Exchange numbers... mga 3 times pa kami nagkita sa mga special occasions.. Ganun lang.. Well... sabi nya na inlove sya sa kin when he heard me sing.. as in yun lang! friend... no.. acquaintance pwede ba...
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #76 on: August 14, 2013, 06:28:29 am »
boyfriend-ed mo na lang...then magpakita ka masamang ugali....no touch, no kiss, no s3x, no date, no watching of movies, walang dalaw sa gabi...umotot at mangulangot ka sa harap nya...turn-off attitude talaga....hehehe...wala lang.....pero ingat-ingat lang po...

ngahaha.... He'd been stalking me all the way from Pasig.. Kahit anu ata pakita ko wa epek... He'll find it amusing pa.
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #77 on: August 14, 2013, 10:47:36 pm »
ka-batch Ungrateful Scholar, huwag natin isali yung from suitor / admirer to stalker dun sa definition ng level-up.  let's consider his being a stalker the first step.  better that he be "flicked" a bit for him to come to his senses.  if he steps on the gas and accelerates towards his goal, rather than leave the scene, then that will be considered leveling-up.  ayun, balato na lang natin sa mga tropa ni Digong.

Schandelah, he heard you sing and that was it for him?  ha ha ha, i hear you po.  marami talagang nabibighani sa boses.  in fact weakness ko po ang mga babaeng magaling kumanta, kaya UTANG NA LOOB, let us not get to know each other, ha ha ha.  and likewise i already have a lovely bird singing me beautiful tunes everyday, and i love her so dearly.   ::lmao   ;D

you may have overlooked some people but i think you have a friend who knows someone who can help you.  what you need to do is talk to your close friends and let them know your dilemma and what you want done.  it may not be obvious at first, but most probably you have a friend who knows someone who can help you.  NBI and CIDG will probably be your bet for this kinds of things.  and yes, they can do it covertly or by the book, if you opt to file a complain.  whichever path you wanna take for this problem, it all depends on what think will best work for the situation.

 for starters, can you at least give the general area of your location now?  maybe we have some espiya borthers who can at least "endorse your case" to someone he or she knows. 
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #78 on: August 14, 2013, 10:57:55 pm »
ka-batch Ungrateful Scholar, huwag natin isali yung from suitor / admirer to stalker dun sa definition ng level-up.  let's consider his being a stalker the first step.  better that he be "flicked" a bit for him to come to his senses.  if he steps on the gas and accelerates towards his goal, rather than leave the scene, then that will be considered leveling-up.  ayun, balato na lang natin sa mga tropa ni Digong.

Schandelah, he heard you sing and that was it for him?  ha ha ha, i hear you po.  marami talagang nabibighani sa boses.  in fact weakness ko po ang mga babaeng magaling kumanta, kaya UTANG NA LOOB, let us not get to know each other, ha ha ha.  and likewise i already have a lovely bird singing me beautiful tunes everyday, and i love her so dearly.   ::lmao   ;D

you may have overlooked some people but i think you have a friend who knows someone who can help you.  what you need to do is talk to your close friends and let them know your dilemma and what you want done.  it may not be obvious at first, but most probably you have a friend who knows someone who can help you.  NBI and CIDG will probably be your bet for this kinds of things.  and yes, they can do it covertly or by the book, if you opt to file a complain.  whichever path you wanna take for this problem, it all depends on what think will best work for the situation.

 for starters, can you at least give the general area of your location now?  maybe we have some espiya borthers who can at least "endorse your case" to someone he or she knows.

You know Ryan? Last night and ngayon lang... 800 messages all from him.. saying I love you... Gosh! binali ko talaga ang sim card ko.. kakabuset na! pina blotter ko na yun nung Monday subukan lang talga nya pakita sa kin... naku I dont kung anu gagawin ko! As in ang init ng ulo ko now here sa office... haist.

Kumakanta kasi ako sa banda Ryan... My fave past time. Mas madalas nga kapag nasa club ako... libre na ang beer ko dahil sa pagkanta! ahaha!
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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #79 on: August 19, 2013, 11:27:34 am »
You know Ryan? Last night and ngayon lang... 800 messages all from him.. saying I love you... Gosh! binali ko talaga ang sim card ko.. kakabuset na! pina blotter ko na yun nung Monday subukan lang talga nya pakita sa kin... naku I dont kung anu gagawin ko! As in ang init ng ulo ko now here sa office... haist.

Kumakanta kasi ako sa banda Ryan... My fave past time. Mas madalas nga kapag nasa club ako... libre na ang beer ko dahil sa pagkanta! ahaha!

sinabi mo na ba sa family mo yan or tinry mo ireach out ang family niya at isumbong ang ginagawa niya?

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« Reply #80 on: August 19, 2013, 04:05:43 pm »
You know Ryan? Last night and ngayon lang... 800 messages all from him.. saying I love you... Gosh! binali ko talaga ang sim card ko.. kakabuset na! pina blotter ko na yun nung Monday subukan lang talga nya pakita sa kin... naku I dont kung anu gagawin ko! As in ang init ng ulo ko now here sa office... haist.

Kumakanta kasi ako sa banda Ryan... My fave past time. Mas madalas nga kapag nasa club ako... libre na ang beer ko dahil sa pagkanta! ahaha!
uh-oh ...
You don't need help.
He's the one who needs help.
kelangan niya ng special attention.
like psychiatrist or worse, mental institution.

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Re: Men! Help!
« Reply #81 on: August 19, 2013, 11:15:32 pm »
tell him you have a mental record and youre taking anti depressants. Then people call you Azula for a monicker.

But seriously, if the guy's freaky, like you dont even see him as a friend, then no choice but to avoid or be rude. Otherwise, just tell him straight out.
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